Socializing in the dark

That's what it is for a blind person like me without very much vision now.  When I had more vision, it was much easier because I could make out where people were sitting or standing and I could see their outlines.  Now it is different.  I have to depend on the sound of one's voice in order to get my bearings. 

 

If the room is noisy then my job of getting my bearings is made even more difficult because I have to work harder to hear voices.  I prefer smaller groups because I feel more comfortable.  Larger groups mean that I need to pay closer attention to more voices.

 

The one thing that I can tell you is that for me, it is a heck of a lot easier to socialize when you have some vision.  I need to ensure that I am speaking to someone and that I am not speaking to an empty chair or space.  That's embarrassing for me.  I also need to ensure that I am with who I want to be; not in a group that I don't want to be with.  All in a day's work but it can be fun if you relax and let the chips fall where they may.

 

I'm Donna J. Jodhan your friendly accessibility advocate wishing you a terrific day and urging you to go out there and socialize with blind persons.  It can be lots of fun and very rewarding.  Visit www.nfb.org to learn more.